I have always been very fortunate that I have never taught
at a school where behaviour was a whole school issue. The great majority of children behave well
and this makes for a pleasant learning environment for all. But obviously some children have behavioural
issues either due to the experiences they are going through, have gone through
or their learning needs. Frustration for
many children drives them to display behaviours that are disruptive but it is
normally a cry for help rather than a true intention to cause misery to others.
My school follows the Good to be Green behaviour management
program. Every child starts each day
with a green card and depending on the choices they make throughout the day are
rewarded with going up through bronze, silver & gold for good behaviour
choices or going down through yellow, orange, red for the incorrect behaviour
choices. It is the behaviour that is bad
NOT the child and the child is given every opportunity to display a good choice
and start to move back up the colours.
We have found this to be a very successful system for most children but
if a child appears to be going home with a red card letter twice a week or more
for a couple of weeks then as SENCO I work with the class teacher and parents
to look at the stumbling points in behaviour.
Often it is due to factors outside of school (parent break
ups/violence/lack of parental control) and we try to work with other agencies such
as our health team or local children’s centre to give support to those around
the child in order for that child’s life to be less disrupted and for them to
be able to control their behaviour within school. Being given space and time to talk about the
issues that affect them is also very important and all children know I have an
open door policy to discuss anything.
Individual behaviour charts have been used in the past –
with the focus on positive praise rather than cataloguing every misdemeanour as
well as modelling through social stories of, “What is the correct behaviour
when … ?”
For a lot of troubled children just having a clear set of
rules and consequences gives them the assurance that everyone is treated the
same and we care about everyone in our school.
Younger children will need more guidance and 1:1 time to
understand and learn to control their behaviours whilst many of the older
children can work with peer groups to work through issues they have. Two freebie resources for older children can
be found at: http://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Using-Cooperative-learning-to-prevent-behaviour-Problems-314741
http://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Classroom-management-strategies-for-the-7-most-common-classroom-problems-298489I'd love you to share your behaviour tips for use in the classroom so feel free to leave a comment.
It's interesting that you mention that behavioral issues come from frustration. Sometimes we tend to forget that. Have a lovely Wednesday.
ReplyDeleteThank you for also mentioning the children's frustration. When I think of some of the issues these children are having to cope with I am amazed by how "good" they actually are!
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